Many people cope with bad news in phases: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Let us try to help you through some of these:

"Why is this happening to me?"

Well, there are two main points. First, the person you wrote to obviously had this email address ready to give you, so they probably get hit on a lot. Second, for whatever reason, that person would rather let you get this rejection letter than reject you in person. So who should you be mad at? All the other creeps who have hit on this person before you, ruining your chances, or you yourself for being too intense or scary to be let down gently? Either way, you really shouldn't be "angry" at anyone - what good does that do?

"I promise I'll do better next time"

Fine, great, but just not with this same person, okay? The message being sent here is pretty clear. Besides, it may not even be your "fault" - as we pointed out above, this person was hit on enough to memorize anyname@reachme.us long before you came along. Maybe you're just out of your league here. Maybe this person has built up some walls that are just too thick to breach. Either way, probably not a good idea to try again. If you do, you're just going to seem like a stalker... or ... well you get the idea! Why not go ahead and clean up your act if you think you should... just be sure to find a different person to try it out on.

"I don't care anymore"

 You can't leave it like that! It isn't all bad! At least you were rejected in the privacy of your own email account, you had no chance to do or say anything that you would later regret, and you've saved the time and effort of pursuing a no-chance relationship.

Besides, you didn't just get rejected - you've learned about a great new tool here... ReachMe.us!

After all, this is nothing personal to us. We have no problem with you, and we'd be just as pleased to serve your rejection needs as we are to serve anybody else. So if you ever need to reject somebody, be sure to tell them to write to you at anyname@ReachMe.us !

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